Mom and dad were bird watchers, and squirrel watchers. Dad still puts peanuts out every day for the squirrels and birds. He says he knows every animal that shows up, even named one squirrel Red.
The day after mom died two doves came to his back yard. He pointed them out to me. “I’ve never seen them before, they’re new. Do you think your mom had something to do with this?” I said yes.
Spring is upon us again, and we are all thinking of mom. Her favorite time of year. I sat on dad’s porch this week and watched the new generation of toddlers running back and forth. I asked dad, “What do you think mom would have thought of these kids? Do you ever wonder if she can see them?”
Before he could answer, two doves flew up and landed alarmingly close to us on the porch. We pointed them out to the kids. Dad says, “Look, there are your grandma’s doves!” They moved to a tree and stayed for a bit, watching over us.
Is it strange that I feel comfort from those doves?
I love this. I believe she watches over us, and sees what we’re doing. The signs we get are proof. God’s way of assuring us of this and of loving us through the pain.